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how wonderful to find you here, Wendy -- I used to write regular articles for Life Learning Magazine so so long ago (Jan Fortune-Wood then, but simply Jan Fortune now). My daughter and her (also home educated) partner now home educate their own two children, very centred on life learning :)

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Hello Jan! Lovely to "see" you again. Your columns for Life Learning were all wonderful and have stood the test of time. Some of them are still on the website. I look forward to reading your current work.

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I loved reading this Wendy!! And I’ve written about living as if school doesn’t exist and it’s so beautiful to see you coming to this same conclusion (except decades before me hehe): that we need to move away from being in opposition to school. Great Piece!

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Thanks Fran. This has been a controversial idea among many.

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Yeah. Do you feel like it’s gaining more traction? I will say that I still use the word unschooling more for recognition than anything else - people read it, and vaguely know where I stand. It’s more of a search term than an actual term at this point!

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Yes, the word "unschooling" is fast code to where we're coming from. And I sometimes use it for that reason. I think increasing numbers of people are understanding the value of self-directed learning for kids, although many still find it difficult to overcome their own (not to mention society's) schooling mindset. On the other hand, Covid lockdowns seem to have bred a whole new wave of school at home. Sigh.

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Definitely thing the mindset shift is one of the biggest barriers to embracing self-direction!

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I like ‘life learning’.

In the U.K., it can be a bit of a minefield as newbies often get told off for using ‘homeschooling’. ‘Home education’ / ‘home ed’ or ‘autonomous home education’ (for unschooling) tend to be the preferred terms.

To my knowledge the ‘official’ term in the U.K. in fact is ‘EHE’, elective home education. Legally all parents are responsible for ensuring their children receive an education. Some (majority) outsource it to school (though legally they remain responsible for ensuring the school actually does provide an education) and some elect to ensure their child receives that education at home. (And some, more and more, deregister their children from school after the school fails to provide that education!)

The reason so many people here are very anti- the word ‘homeschooling’ in fact is partly because legally, it is too easy to conflate with situations where children are still on the school register but aren’t attending in person; they have tutors sent by the local authority (LA) or are simply sent work home. Plus the more people conflate home ed with ‘school’, the more governments and LAs expect a school-like environment.

And ‘homeschooling’ does make me think of big American houses that have their own beautifully curated Instagram ‘school room’ with lots of seashells, a chalkboard, and books in baskets. 😃

But I also think the telling off of new home edders that happens here (a lot — especially on Facebook home ed groups) for using ‘homeschooling’ can give people a very icy first impression and doesn’t always build community.

It’s interesting as always to see there are similar debates across the pond. I wonder what the preferred terms are elsewhere.

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I've long felt that the UK use of "home education" is an improvement over "homeschooling." Here in Canada, education is a provincial matter. We lived in the province of Ontario in the 1970s and '80s when our family learned without school and the legislative term there was "satisfactory instruction at home or elsewhere," which was problematic because it focused on instruction rather than learning and lumped private schools in with the rest of us. It really is unfortunate when families fight over terminology, though, because I think we should all be focused on deschooling ourselves and society. I see that a lot in the "unschooling" world, where judgement is made about definitions and who is doing it correctly.

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